There are several important factors that will play a role in selecting an engagement ring, and sizing is on the list in virtually every case. Accurate sizing can be a challenge for some in this realm, especially if you're purchasing a ring for your partner without them present as part of a surprise, but the right basic steps will allow you to choose the perfect ring size.
At Kelley Jewelers, we're proud to offer a huge range of bridal and engagement rings to clients throughout Oklahoma, plus assistance with all your sizing and related needs to ensure you're purchasing the ideal ring. How should an engagement ring fit, and what are some tips for finding optimal ring size depending on whether you have access to the wearer's finger in advance? Here's a primer on these and some other important considerations for engagement ring size.

How Should an Engagement Ring Fit?
Generally speaking, a perfect engagement ring will be snug but still comfortable as it sits on the ring finger. Any engagement ring that's too loose will run the risk of spinning and catching on things, which can lead to damage or possible loss. It might also irritate wearers who feel like they're constantly readjusting their rings during wear, and all this makes for a less-than-ideal experience.
On the other hand, rings that are too tight can be quite uncomfortable. They can cause irritation and even damage to the skin of the finger on which they're worn, and this might make for situations in which wearers simply don't want to wear their engagement ring anymore. Most modern women favor a looser fit these days, but a tighter one can occasionally be preferable depending on the style and composition of a ring.
Our next couple sections will go over some tips for measuring for ring size.
Measuring for Engagement Ring WITH the Wearer
When the wearer of the ring is taking part in the selection process (that is, you aren't buying the ring for them as a surprise), there are a couple of setups you might use for measuring the ring size:
- In-store: Our top recommended method for any engagement ring is having the finger sized within the jewelry store. Our professionals will utilize a variety of ring sizers according to the style and metal of the engagement ring you have chosen.
- At-home sizing: If for any reason you can't make it into the store and are measuring at needing to measure at home, Kelley Jewelers offers free temporary sizers that we are happy to mail to you. Though this method is efficient, it is less than ideal compared to having a professional measurement taken in-store.
Measuring for Engagement Ring WITHOUT the Wearer
If you're purchasing an engagement ring for a surprise proposal, on the other hand, you won't have a finger to work with for sizing. Here are a couple of tips for finding the ideal size in this case without ruining the surprise:
- Look for other rings: If the wearer wears any rings on their ring finger at all, look for one that's close to the same size as the intended ring. This will serve as a solid foundation from which you can measure your preference.
- Talk to friends or family: Another option in the absence of any other options is to ask someone close to the ring-wearer about her sizing preferences. If they have expressed any opinions on what size they prefer, you can use another ring she wears as your foundation for sizing.
Resizing
Most engagement rings can be resized a quarter or half-size without impacting the overall integrity of the piece. At Kelley Jewelers, with every engagement ring purchase, your first ring sizing is free!
For more on how to properly size an engagement ring, or to learn about any of our jewelry services in Oklahoma, speak to our experienced consultants at Kelley Jewelers today.